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A client of mine was in Alaska visiting family. She and her two boys, ages four and two, were in a hotel room. In the hotel, the boys were playing around a dresser. On top of the dresser was a TV, which was quite heavy in those days. All of a sudden the boys knocked the TV down off the dresser.
It’s graduation time, which means commencement speeches. I had more fun listening to commencement speeches at my daughter’s high school graduation than I ever did at any college graduation. The high school commencement talks were more creative and less about trying to sound smart. Bill Gates’ speech, love him or hate him, comes pretty close to hitting home on what he said at a high school talk about the 11 things they did not learn in school.